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Adult children sometimes have the challenge of communicating with their aging parents. You want the best for your mom and dad, but they don’t seem to reciprocate. This is a common phenomenon in the Delray Senior Living landscape. A recent study by the Rowan University School of Osteopathic Medicine found that more than 70% of adult children believe their parents to be stubborn. They tend to deny loving bits of advice from their children. Here are a few examples of how you should deal with this personal problem….

Accept the situation.

“You can take a horse to water, but you can’t make them drink.” Accepting the situation can relieve you from unnecessary stress. Senior people are capable of making decisions, they aren’t small children that have 0 experience living in the real world. This is the type of mindset you might want to adopt the next time you are talking with your parents.

Decide how important the matter is.

Assessing the matter at hand is crucial. It is a lot easier to identify where you can compromise the argument without ravishing the relationship. The elderly picks up how important the issue is when they see you are genuinely concerned about it. They might see your perspective.

Find an outside outlet for your feelings.

It is vital to find an outlet to let go of your feelings when conflict arises. This is a life lesson you will get better as you mature. Your parents were the once guiding you when you were young and now that you can see things with more independence, you are prone to get frustrated when you have disagreements with your parents. Find a friend or a program where you can rationalize your feelings. It helps all parties involved.

Try to understand the motivation behind their behavior.

Seek first to understand then to be understood. The problem might be on your end but you are too focused on your parents’ shortcomings. Understanding their behavior can help you build your case as you modify your approach. There are a lot of times where adult children just went out of their way to say what they want without considering how their parents feel about the situation.

Take Our Advice: Visit Them in Delray Assisted Living

As the years passed by, Courtyard Gardens listened to the stories of both parents and children on the matter. It is part of our service at Delray Senior Living to balance things and find common ground. Besides the differences of a different perspective, we agree senior people are better off in our facilities. If you’re curious about it and on our other services, then don’t hesitate to contact us right now!

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