We love our elderly parents! We wish they could stay with us; live with us under one roof. But sometimes, it’s not feasible as their needs call for utmost attention that oftentimes we couldn’t fully provide to them. Then, there’s something that we can consider – an assisted living facility. But the truth is, finding the best facility isn’t the hardest part. It’s how to convince ourselves and our beloved aging parents to move into such a chosen community. To make it easier and bearable though, we offer some tips that you may find worthy to apply.
1. Emotional and Mental Conditioning
Considering moving your senior parent/s to an assisted living facility is emotionally painful and mentally draining. But think about this: it’s more advantageous for your beloved seniors to live in a community where their needs are properly attended. It’s not you being a bad child but actually, it’s you being the kindest and most caring or loving child. In fact, it’s one of the most powerful acts of love as you’re thinking about the welfare of your aging parents.
2. Talk to Your Senior About the Need for an Assisted Living Facility
Once you’re settled with your emotions about an assisted living, look for a perfect time to talk about it with your senior. Do it as gentle as possible for seniors are typically very sensitive. Your beloved senior may show feelings of anger and frustration but just be patient and talk in a gentle way. Discuss the need but emphasize on the benefits of the facility. Moreover, don’t forget to highlight your regular visits and you to spend quality time with your senior in the facility.
3. Convince Your Senior to Try Out the Facility for a Couple of Hours/Days
Tell your senior to experience the facility for a few hours or if possible, a couple of days. Overnight stays aren’t really required because an adult day care will do. Simply, give your senior the taste of what’s it like living in that community.
Total Commitment is Essential in Assisted Living Community
A senior needs full commitment when deciding for an assisted living facility. However, it’s difficult to commit to something that you aren’t happy about. At Courtyard Gardens, we offer adult day care services for seniors who are not ready to reside in the facility yet. Give your beloved senior parents time to know the residents, our ways, and discover the benefits offered by our facility. For more info, don’t hesitate to give us a call!
